There does not seem to be an equally heated (and ferociously foolish) argument in any other context within the normative social sphere about what people wish to call themselves, so why is identity-first vs. person-first preference in autism such a ridiculously aggrandised and dramatic squabble among non-autistic persons?
All in the name of political correctness, which is such an irony that the non-autistic PC (politically correct) police do not seem to understand – or just stubbornly do not wish to acknowledge. (The latter is far more sinister than the former.) Surely it is more politically incorrect to insist on calling someone by a name they DO NOT wish to be called by? Is this a conspiracy of the deficits-focused overground social colonialists fearing an eventual autistic world domination (should they as much as acknowledge us for what we wish to be recognised for), or is it just plain and simple flabbergasting ludicrousness?
Right… why the rant? Well, it sort of builds up every now and then, like those giant cyst-like pimples that come and go, as nature’s way of blighting your life, you know those? Usually the culprit is my terrible penchant for reading comments on FB or blogposts, and getting caught up in the horrific pompous ignorance displayed by the general non-autistic populace about autism. Sometimes I do try to put in my two cents’ worth of advocacy / education, but mostly, I just become upset and do this babble-rant thing.
Here’s my most recent one (rant, that is):
Hear ye! Hear ye!!!! People! People! People! EDUCATED people! Educated people who work in the disabilities field! Educated people who work with autistic people! HEED THIS PLEASE!!!
We are autistic. We are not ‘persons-with-autism.’ Unless the individual specifically tells you they do not wish to identify as autistic (and I do have a view on this but it’s not part of my rant), then PLEASE do try your very best not to impose your preconceived notions of what is respectful or politically correct on us. Give us that amount of respect to know what we wish to be referred to, please, please very kindly.
If you really wish to be politically correct, then PLEASE go do some research on current political correctness!!! The internet is available to you, the information is free and readily accessible! From ASAN, autism advocates’ webpages, to (yes, gasp!) recent research studies in neuroscience (check out Michelle Dawson – an actually autistic researcher – gasp gasp gasp!!!) !!!!!!
Non-autistic people claiming to be experts/professionals working in the field of autism can often (not always but often) be the MOST annoying know-it-alls. Next up are the self-styled ‘educated’ folk who try to tell me, an autistic person and researcher in the field of autism with an almost PhD, what I should want to be called!!!
—- Rant brought to you courtesy of the wonderful internet and my silly tendency to even bother to read the comments that people vomit out as a by-way-of reflex activity (not unlike burping and belching) underneath some really wonderful FB posts about autistic persons —-
Oh hey, here too is my own take on the grand circus that should not be: Identity First by Dawn-joy Leong.
The video clip? Well, that’s just a stim that stuck in my head, added here for whimsical weird effect, ala Bunnyhopscotch twisty humour. Enjoy! 🙂