Poisonous Expectations

Another powerful post by Alex. This reverberates deeply in my consciousness.
“You are expensive!” “Do you know you cost more than any of your siblings?” “Do you think I ever wanted a child like you?” Sticks and stones do not actually hurt as much as words. Ableism begins at home. But so does inclusion and acceptance.

Married, With Aspergers

There’s a toxic belief permeating all levels of society: that disabled lives are worth less than able ones. In just the last couple of days there has been a political candidate calling for compulsory abortion of fetuses that test positive for genetic conditions such as cerebral palsy, and a columnist in a national (UK) daily newspaper using the phrase “remedial-level dipshit” to describe children with developmental delays.

I have a daughter. I understand having hopes and dreams of what your child may achieve: that’s only natural. What isn’t natural, or at all healthy, is this cultural obsession with perfection. TV, magazines, newspapers are all full of examples of what is deemed to be “perfect” with public shaming and criticism of those don’t live up to this ideal.

Those with physical or mental disabilities are not spared. Portrayed as objects of pity, a modern-day freak show exhibited so that the able-bodied…

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